Saturday, March 6, 2021

Playing Catch Up

I've been so bad about journaling lately.  Not that a lot has happened, though.  Still, I'll play a little catch up now.

Hyrum and Brigham were invited by a couple of friends from church to go to the Labyrinth.  It's kind of like a physical way of playing a reality game.  With the pandemic, there has not been a lot of "get togethers" so this was so nice.  It made Momma happy that they were doing this.
Every since David has been gone during the week and only home on the weekends, Ruger started sneaking in my bed at night.  It's gotten pretty bad that he almost comes in every night.  But with me in  school, a lot of times, when he tries to sneak in I'm still up doing homework.  When that happens, I tell him to sleep on the floor so he isn't distracted by the light of my computer.  One night he set up this little makeshift bed.  Such a cutie pie!
Brittany now lives in Utah so we often have lunch together but Charlene lives in Arizona.  She came to Utah in January for her Grandma's funeral so we got to have a little college roommate reunion.  I need these girls in my life.  I talk to them several times during the week on the app Marco Polo.  We get each other through stuff and make each other laugh.  I love them like family!
I'll just end this post with this good looking guy!  Brigham has become such a friend to me.  With David gone so much, I'd say at least once a week, will come in my bedroom and just talk to me about stuff.  Sometimes its to help me with something I'm trying to figure out, sometimes its to get off his chest things that he is dealing with, but most of the time I think he just feels he is almost the man of the house when Dad is gone.  All the older boys are good to me but Brigham, I think, has this pull to be protective of me.  I'm so blessed to call him my son.

Sunday, January 10, 2021

Women and the Priesthood

 The following is a talk that I gave in Sacrament meeting today:

I’m going to do something a little backwards and start my talk with sharing a part of my testimony.  Through the preparation of this talk, I have gained insight about something I haven’t fully understood in the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Knowledge has been gained because I asked others about my topic and then studied.  After doing that for a few days, I went to the Lord.  It’s interesting to me that this week in Come Follow Me we are talking about the same type of action that Joseph Smith took.  It all started with a question, right?  So I went to the Lord to help me understand the Priesthood and how woman play a role in it.  I want to testify to you that if you go to the Lord with a question or need guidance, He will provide.  For me it took some time.  This is a very confusing topic for me.  But the Lord did answer my question by guiding me to ask women in this ward, my Mom, my sister-in-law, and some of my college friends about their feelings on the subject. 

To get to the topic of the Women and the Priesthood, I feel that you have to understand the Priesthood first.  The Priesthood is the authority and power of God.  It is through this power and authority that Heavenly Father accomplishes what He said in Moses 1:39, “For behold, this is my work and my glory - to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”  The holders of the Priesthood are worthy males of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  This is where some people outside the Church and even in the Church, get a little squirmy.  But I hope that for those of you who are confused about the topic or do not know as much as you’d like to, would really listen to this next part.  It is only the ordination of the Priesthood that woman do not hold.  That is it!  Men are not the Priesthood.  President Dallin H. Oaks said, “Priesthood is not those who have been ordained to a priesthood office or those who exercise its authority. Men who hold the priesthood are not the priesthood. While we should not refer to ordained men as the priesthood, it is appropriate to refer to them as holders of the priesthood.”  And President M. Russell Ballard said, “In our Heavenly Father’s great Priesthood-endowed plan, men have the unique responsibility to administer the Priesthood, but they are not the Priesthood.”   

I will be quoting a lot of people in this talk and I hope that you do not mind that I also quote a member of our ward.  She is one of the people I came to, to help me better understand not only this subject but also how other members view it.  I asked Sister VanderWerff, “What is the first thing that comes to your mind when it comes to Women and the Priesthood?”  She said, “Women have a divine role in the Priesthood but it’s not to be misunderstood with the (worthy) man’s role in the Priesthood.  Women can do certain things that men can’t and vice versa.  I consider my role as a woman and the Priesthood to be sacred and not taken lightly.”  So while a Woman may not be able to administer Priesthood ordinances, give blessings, or be the Bishop neither can a Priesthood holder be a Primary President, a temple ordinance worker for women, and lets not forget that they can’t have babies!  President Hugh B. Brown spoke of the divine partnership with God as women create babies in the womb and continue to create a masterpiece as she guides and directs her children throughout their life.  He said, “You women exert the first and most lasting influence on your child when you co-operate with God in building its body.  As you cradle it in your arms, nourish and nurtures it by your love and sacrifice, as you stimulate its intellect, its ambition, strengthen its spiritual and moral fiber, you are intimately co-operating with your Heavenly Father.”  Brothers and Sisters, I have a testimony that both women and men have a divine place, different from each other, that furthers our Father’s work and glory.  Sister Sheri Dew said, “The responsibilities, roles, and divinely endowed gifts of men and women differ in nature but not in quality, significance, or degree of importance, impact, or influence.  Latter-Day Saint doctrine places women equal to, and yet distinct and different from, men.” 

If anyone is still bothered that Women in the church is not eligible for Priesthood ordination, maybe the following idea will help.  Women and the Priesthood is not the only thing that members outside of our Church have a problem with.  And I’d be lying to you if I said that I never questioned all that has been taught to me concerning the Church or the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  My advice to you when you come across things like this is to approach the Lord about it and study.  If you still do not feel you have a solid answer after that, what I turn to is the pre-existence.  I like to think that if I stood up for Plan of Salvation in our Pre-Mortal life, it must be assumed that I stood up and believed in the way the Priesthood would be performed and by whom while here on Earth.  And if I can take that idea and spin it in a way to promote the idea that women have always been involved in the workings of God’s plan, I’d like to share with you a quote from Elder Bruce R. McConkie.  Speaking of women being a part of the “noble and great ones” that Abraham spoke of when the Lord showed him part of the creation of Earth he said, “This we know: Christ, under the Father, is the Creator, Michael, his companion and associate, presided over much of the creative work: and with them, as Abraham saw, were many of the noble and great ones.  Can we do other than conclude that Mary and Eve, and Sarah and myriads of our faithful sisters were numbered among them?  Certainly, these sisters labored as diligently then and fought as valiantly in the War in Heaven as did the brethren, even as they in like manner stand firm today…”

Worthy men have direct access to the blessings of the Priesthood…but so do covenant keeping women.  We all can be led by the Holy Ghost, we all can gain eternal life, we all can receive personal revelation, we all can be sealed forever with our families, we all can have direct council from our Lord through Priesthood blessings, and so much more!  Yet Satan would have us believe that is not enough.  That our divine identity, that men and women are different, is a bad thing.  If he can get women to believe that Christ’s Church does not love or care for them - if he can convince women that they are not enough - he knows that he is successfully leading the noble and great ones away.  Thankfully, our Father in Heaven has more faith in women.  I like how Sherri Dew put it.  She said, “(Satan) hates women of the noble birthright.  He hates them because he is almost out of time.  He hates them because of the influence (Women) have on husbands and children and boyfriends, grandchildren and nieces and nephews, family and friends, the Church and even the world.  It is no secret to him that covenant-keeping women are one of the Lord’s most effective weapons against his sinful, sinister strategies.” 

There is one other part of this subject on Women and the Priesthood that I want to make sure that I address and that is for Women who feel they “don’t have the Priesthood in their homes.”

  SISTER REYNA I. ABURTO said, “I always feel sad when I hear a woman say: “I don’t have the priesthood in my home.”  She generally means there is no one holding a priesthood office living in her home. Be assured that a single woman or a woman whose husband does not hold a priesthood office doesn’t need to feel she is cut off from priesthood power and blessings.  These sisters have access to power through their covenants, and the faithfulness with which they keep those covenants can bless every member of their household.  And while they will call on brothers who hold a Melchizedek priesthood office for blessings of health or comfort, they are nevertheless themselves a source of priesthood power for their own homes.”

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Saturday, January 9, 2021

While Poppy was here, he watched the kids while David and I went to Park City for a day and night.  I think most parents of younger kids would understand that you don't have to do much for your anniversary as long as it consists of being alone!  We love our children dearly but it was very much needed for David and I just to focus in on us like we were able to.
When we got back, Poppy and the boys had bought David a cheesecake for his birthday.  We opened presents and then David, Poppy, and the older boys went to the theater and watched a movie.  
I love this man and I think he knows it.  I think I'm pretty apparent by my reaction to him coming home on Fridays after being away since Monday.  I think he knows it by how monopolizing I am of his time when he's home.  But I also hope he knows something.  I hope he knows how grateful I am that he is such a good example to our boys of how a man can show that same love back to his wife.  And he does.  I know he loves me.  I know he needs me.  And it feels good.
 

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Poppy's Surprise

The day after Christmas I got the best gift and surprise.  A surprise that I really had no clue was coming.  My father!

Through the giving of my parents, Ronald, and Hannah, Dad was able to come to Utah and stay almost 6 days with us.  It was such a sweet sacrifice given by these people so that I could have my father near me during kind of a difficult time of year; the anniversary of my Grandmother's passing.  I think of my Mom, more than anyone that really had to sacrifice the most.  She had to sacrifice the physical support of her husband while dealing with the reminder of the loss of her mother.  I won't soon forgot this.  I love her anyway, but this act of charity makes me feel that love for her even stronger right now.







Poppy watched the boys for David and I while we celebrated our anniversary, he took the boys to a Trampoline/bounce place, we ate out a lot, we went up in the mountains to play in the snow, Dad and I just sat in bet and watched funny TV shows, and the men/boys went out to see a movie.  I think that was quite a lot for being in the middle of a pandemic.

I love my father.  We have a special bond that is obvious to others and personal for ourselves.  How do you put that into words?  I'm not sure that I quite can.  But we know.  I guess that is all that matters.


Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Christmas 2020

Christmas this year was a little quieter than usual.  It was simple.  Maybe because of Covid-19 and presents not getting here on time.  Maybe because we didn't go to Oklahoma this year.  Maybe because I was a little sad with the anniversary of Grandma's passing coming quickly.  Who knows but it did feel different.  But sometimes with "different" things comes little blessings like how you can learn from a simple Christmas.  We played games, we ate, we loved, and hopefully we'll remember.





Grandma couldn't come inside because of Covid but she did come over later and we exchanged gifts.
A few days later, some packages arrived.  This was one of our favorites.

 

Friday, December 25, 2020

December Mashup

David, Ruger, and I were out and about earlier this month when Ruger wanted to call his Grandpa Adams.  Somewhere along the conversation (he was on speaker phone) Steve said something about remembering letting his boys handle the steering wheel when they were real young.  I went inside the store to get something and when I came back I found this!

Tumbleweed galore!  The first picture is of one of our neighbors drive way.  The second is a picture of one of the many pileups we saw in our neighborhood one very windy day.


Annual gingerbread decorating. But this year, the 2 older boys decorated theirs and then let Ruger "Hulk Smash" them afterwards.  As you can imagine, absolutely destroying a gingerbread house was something Ruger could not pass up.

So many people have these beautiful, themed Christmas trees.  Not us.  They are full of Primary and Elementary School yearly ornaments made by the kids throughout the years and Nanny's yearly homemade Christmas ornaments.  And then there is that weird, now yearly, trumpet on top of the tree that the boys insist on.  But I wouldn't change it if I could.  

 

Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Levi is an adult!


My baby.  My first born.  On the 20th he became an adult.  Sorry bud, you'll always be my baby. 


As a toddler, his own personality started to show.  Obedient and kind.  Still is.  When he became a little older, he showed interest in taking things apart and them assembling them back together again.  Still does.  At a young age, he challenged himself to read the Book of Mormon all the way through.  He still loves the gospel and asks questions, showing me that he really does have a testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Then he became a pre-teen and showed love for babies and toddlers.  Out of all the siblings, he still gets along best with Ruger.  As a teenager, he discovered his love of welding.  We'll see if he follows that passion after his mission, but as of now that has not changed and he wants it to be his profession.


At 6 food whatever, he towers over his Momma, he loves Sweedish Fish and Coke, he loves playing his piano, he's a hard working man (Little Creasers), he studies the Gospel of Jesus Christ, he hugs his mother without me asking, he enjoys hanging out with his Dad when fixing the cars, bikes, or whatever Dad is perfecting, he laughs with Brigham and Hyrum at silly stuff, and loves messing with Ruger.


  He is the ideal product of parenting that any parent could ever ask for.